TRY ME - I’M BACK -

There was a season when I felt invincible, but not in the way people imagined. I didn’t feel powerful. I didn’t feel celebrated. I felt unneeded, easily replaced, and constantly remembered that no matter how much I poured out, it would never be enough. They used me to secure win after win, breakthrough after breakthrough, victory after victory. And while they were celebrating on the mountaintop, I was the one buried underneath the weight of the work. Not in a spirit of anger, but in a spirit of strength, I am standing on business. Not because I’m hardened, but because I’m healed. Not because I’m closed off, but because I finally understand my worth. Romans 5:3-4 'We glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; and patience, experience; and experience, hope.' My pain produced strength, wisdom, and hope. Psalm 147:3 'He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.' My healing is not accidental; it’s intentional. Proverbs 4:23 'Above all else, guard your heart, for everything.' Emotional intelligence begins with protecting your inner world. James 1:2-4 'The testing of your faith produces perseverance.' My trials shaped me into someone stronger. Do not be Lukewarm. Low emotional engagement in communication is when a person responds, but without depth; they’re around, but not present, they care, but not consistently. They show inconsistent affection or effort, warm one day, distant the next. Leaving you with a feeling of never quite knowing where you stand. This inconsistency in your communication creates emotional confusion. Normally, people have an avoidance of vulnerability issues because they don’t open up emotionally by sharing feelings. When confronted, they keep things 'safe' and on a surface level by lacking in communication.