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Named an Editor’s Pick by Publishers Weekly’s BookLife Reviews (September 2025 Issue)Say Hello First: A Therapist’s Guide to Building Confidence and Finally Making FriendsIf making friends feels awkward, intimidating, or like something everyone else has figured out but you haven’t, you’re not broken. You’re not alone. You just haven’t been shown how.'Social confidence is the trust that you belong, simply by being yourself, and without needing to prove it.'In this warm, research-backed guide, licensed therapist and social confidence expert Bianca Cummings helps you move beyond loneliness, ease social anxiety, and build the meaningful friendships you’ve been longing for-without changing who you are.The world is full of potential friends waiting for your energy to meet theirs.Blending psychology, neuroscience, and emotional wellness, Say Hello First shows you how your internal energy shapes your external world. You’ll learn how small shifts in presence, mindset, and behavior can rewire your brain for connection and create trust-naturally.Whether you’re shy, starting over, or just tired of feeling left out, this book offers a grounded, heart-forward path to connection and belonging.You’ll learn how to:Understand the science of human connectionDiscover why your brain is wired for connection-and how to use that to your advantageLearn the neuroscience of friendship through dopamine, oxytocin, mirror neurons, and emotional synchronyUse your emotional energy to create trust and emotional safetyDecode common blind spots like the liking gap, spotlight effect, and social comparisonRewire your mindset and emotionsBreak free from self-criticism and stop overthinking in social situationsCalm anxiety and feel more at ease in your own skinBuild genuine confidence-without pretending or performingApply real-world connection toolsFind new friends: where to go, how to connect, and who to approachStart real conversations (even if small talk makes you cringe)Make others feel safe and seen-the true secret to likabilityRead body language and project warmth with presence and intentionAnd explore why your dog might just be your most powerful ally against lonelinessThis isn’t about perfection or people-pleasing. Each chapter includes low-pressure, science-backed tools like 'How You Can Do It' summaries and quick, actionable steps you can try right away.Whether you’re a teen, adult, or mental health professional, Say Hello First gives you the confidence, clarity, and heart to move from disconnection to deep connection-starting with one small act of courage.
