Librería Samer Atenea
Kálamo Books
Librería Elías (Asturias)
Librería Kolima (Madrid)
Librería Proteo (Málaga)
What if motherhood was never meant to be done alone?Modern motherhood asks an extraordinary amount of women.We are expected to raise healthy, happy children, maintain homes, manage schedules, navigate careers, carry the invisible mental load, and somehow find time to remain whole human beings ourselves. And increasingly, we are expected to do it with less help than previous generations had.But what if the answer isn’t simply to become better at doing everything?What if we built something different?A mommune is a deliberate community of mothers who share aspects of daily life, childcare, resources, and decision-making while preserving the individuality and privacy of their own families. It might mean two mothers sharing a home. It might mean several families living in adjoining units. It might become a larger cooperative community. There is no single blueprint.Mommune explores what happens when mothers stop treating isolation as an unavoidable part of parenthood and begin treating community as something they can intentionally build.Laura Whitaker examines the history of collective child-rearing and the forces that made the isolated nuclear household seem like the default. She then turns to the practical questions that determine whether shared living actually works:How do you find women who are genuinely compatible with your family?How do you divide childcare without creating resentment?What is fair when one mother has more money and another has more time?How should housing, leases, mortgages, and shared property be structured?How much privacy does each family need?What happens when parenting philosophies collide?How should fathers and romantic partners fit into the arrangement?How do you protect children’s individual needs and attachments?What happens when someone gets sick, loses a job, falls in love, or wants to leave?And what happens when the experiment doesn’t work?This is not a utopian manifesto. A mommune can reduce loneliness and distribute the enormous labor of raising children-but it can also create conflict, blurred boundaries, financial tensions, unequal labor, and painful endings. The goal is not perfect harmony. The goal is a structure resilient enough to survive real life.Drawing on historical examples, contemporary models, practical considerations, and case studies of collective households, Mommune offers a clear-eyed guide to building something many mothers desperately need but rarely know how to create:a village.You don’t have to abandon your partner.You don’t have to give up your privacy.You don’t have to live in a commune.And you don’t have to do motherhood alone.The village can be built.
