Every Story Matters

Why I Celebrate PeopleI didn’t know until about noon yesterday that it was Dr Christopher Kolade’s birthday. Had I known before the day, I would have done a tribute and cause for it to be published in the newspapers to coincide with the occasion of his 90th Birthday. But the moment I got to know; things changed for me. Even though I was busy with a particular project that I was determined to turn in yesterday, I could no longer fully focus on it. I wasn’t going to be at ease until I had done a befitting tribute in celebration of this icon. That was exactly how it turned out. No rest until it was done. The bonus was Premium Times being so kind to publish it, despite how late it was.Well, heavens won’t fail should I fail to fulfill this self-imposed assignment. In any case, I had failed on a few occasions. But the truth is, I feel bad every time I am unable to use the occasion of a Birthday to celebrate persons (even friends here) who I might have pencilled down as deserving of a tribute.I believe that people should be celebrated while alive. I believe that the good in people should be projected to appreciate them and inspire others to take a cue. I believe in using whatever platforms I have to project good deeds, document good and positive stories, inspire people, and reassure those on the right path that they are not alone.I like to read people’s stories. I like to hear people tell their stories. I believe everyone has a story. I believe that we don’t tell our good stories enough. I know that positive stories don’t necessarily sell, like the negative, sensational ones. I believe, however, that the onus is on us to continue to document and share these stories. I have faithfully done this on TV, print, and social media platforms over the years. It is a self-assigned responsibility. Even with time often a constraint, it is a responsibility I take seriously. In celebrating people, it is not to make the point that such people are infallible or right about every one of their actions. Sometimes, some of these people have flaws or have made mistakes that are in the public domain, it is my choice, in putting my spotlight on them, to focus on their positive works and strengths, those things that can inspire others.I believe there is usually one good thing that can be found about a person, if only we will look closely enough. I believe that we can always find something to wrap our tribute around. I do not have to agree with your views to acknowledge the beauty in the manner you express it or even the force of your conviction. I can disagree with your conclusion and still celebrate your conviction.Whatever untoward experiences we have, we must be able to see that as just one view and not the complete picture of the person. We must be able to set our biases and/or prejudices to acknowledge that bit that is good about others. A candle doesn’t lose that much in lighting up others. If I had my way, I would be spending more time celebrating people here - friends here and there, ordinary people I meet here and there, giants who were once with us, icons who are still with us. I believe we are not doing enough to celebrate the good around us - good people, good deeds, good initiatives here and there. I believe in celebrating people. Especially while they are still here. I will continue to do so.Simbo OlorunfemiAfrica Enterprise